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There are several symptoms of bullying for children. To start with, Unexplainable injuries. A
situation in which children cannot explain in depth the injuries they have or
unreasonable reasons. Bullying can be a humiliating experience. Kids may not
want adults to know what is being said about them, whether true or false. They
may also fear that adults will judge them or punish them for being weak.
Secondly, Lost or destroyed clothing, books, electronics, or jewelry. Common
occurrences by bullies. it usually bully the victim by removing or damaging stuff
for the purpose of personal pleasure or deliberately humiliating the victim “It’s
really about human dignity. Bullies act on contempt and disdain. There’s a
language of supremacy here. Bullying is a superior use of power with the intent
to harm another person,” (Paul Coughlin, 2017), . Last but not least, Declining
grades, loss of interest in schoolwork, or not wanting to go to school. this is
a situation where the victim is afraid or anxious in the school environment.
bullies bully them when they study or rest, because of that Declining grades.
How
the effect of bullying to the victims, it can affect victims especially in learning. Stress and anxiety caused by bullying
and harassment can make it more difficult for kids to learn. It can cause
difficulty in concentration and decrease their ability to focus, which affects
their ability to remember things they have learned. on the other hand, Bullying
is painful and humiliating, and kids who are bullied feel embarrassed, battered
and shamed. If the pain is not relieved, bullying can even lead to
consideration of suicide or violent behavior.
Reasons of bullying trigger. Bullying may be initially just for fun (Stutzky, 2009) said, "in fact, bullies tend to be confident, with high self-esteem. However, it can have an impact on victims, ranging from psychological disorders, trauma, even willing to get along and the worse part to end their lives. There are several factors that trigger. Firstly, let us take look at parenting in the family. parents who develop aggressive behavior grow in care that is not conducive, ranging from insecure closeness with their caregivers, the demands of too high discipline from their parents and even relationship problems between their parents: depression, antisocial and even acts of violence at home. Secondly, Lack of attention from their parents. The low involvement and attention of parents to children makes children like to look for attention in the surrounding environment. Some choose to achieve and show their abilities to get attention. However, unfortunately, there are also those who choose to do bullying and make troubles and even chaos in order to get the attention of their parents. Lastly, Exposure to violence from the media. Not surprisingly, acts of violence are also found in the media, such as game or reality shows that show scenes of violence, bullying, games or through social media. Basically, children who are still in the learning stage and have high curiosity will imitate the things they see without filtering them out.
Reasons of bullying trigger. Bullying may be initially just for fun (Stutzky, 2009) said, "in fact, bullies tend to be confident, with high self-esteem. However, it can have an impact on victims, ranging from psychological disorders, trauma, even willing to get along and the worse part to end their lives. There are several factors that trigger. Firstly, let us take look at parenting in the family. parents who develop aggressive behavior grow in care that is not conducive, ranging from insecure closeness with their caregivers, the demands of too high discipline from their parents and even relationship problems between their parents: depression, antisocial and even acts of violence at home. Secondly, Lack of attention from their parents. The low involvement and attention of parents to children makes children like to look for attention in the surrounding environment. Some choose to achieve and show their abilities to get attention. However, unfortunately, there are also those who choose to do bullying and make troubles and even chaos in order to get the attention of their parents. Lastly, Exposure to violence from the media. Not surprisingly, acts of violence are also found in the media, such as game or reality shows that show scenes of violence, bullying, games or through social media. Basically, children who are still in the learning stage and have high curiosity will imitate the things they see without filtering them out.
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